Kajal Jain
Yes, we know you two love each other but still life with
them ends in arguments and disappointments, which our relationships offer us.
There must be things that you are doing wrong, things you should have been done
otherwise. But your man probably has no clue exactly what is he doing to offend
the woman in his life. However, we do. And we plan to take the reins in of your
not-so-happy-not-so-sad, mediocre quality relationship in our hands now. Here
is a list of all what a woman wants from her man:
5. Respect her
Maybe it is not just about the woman of your life. Maybe it
is the right of every individual to live with dignity and respect. Many a
times, people come with a fragile nature and tend to take offense in every
little thing that happens. It varies from person to person. As she is your
partner, you as her ‘man’ should be the person most close to her and should
thus get insight into her nature. One must take care that no words; intentional
or unintentional offend her. This will generate an innate confidence in her
that she is respected by you and will bring harmony to the relationship.
4. Trust her
Women believe that trust is the basis of every successful
relationship. Hence, they expect that they command your complete faith in them.
While dating, nobody likes a man snooping around the restaurant while you are
dining with a colleague, or scrutinizing through your private mail box while
you are relaxing yourself over a bubble bath. Distrust is a turn off in itself
and would show itself in the sharp decline of passion between you two. However,
a little amount of faith can even help sail a sinking boat through the storm.
3. Pay Attention
The fact is humans crave attention. Women being the
super-humans that they are, ask for a little more than that. Commanding
attention is directly related to their own value in your life. The more you
value them, the more attention you pay, regardless of the circumstance. Weather
it is a trivial conversation that you both are having or a new dress she got
for your date night, paying attention will get you a long way. Little things
like these make big differences.
2. Never lie
Transparency is the secret of happy relationships. You
probably cannot ever completely undo the effect that the knowledge of a lie
will cast on her heart and mind. It would almost account to infidelity in her
mind. Also, you can never hide a lie forever, truth always triumphs and there
are chances it will trample your relationship based on lies with its power. On
the other hand, speaking even the bitter truths can strengthen your
relationship with building mutual trust.
1. Love her
They say that if you believe in love, expect a miracle. When
everything else fails to work, the power of love will come to rescue your relationship
from falling apart. Love is very much a pragmatic idea to save the
relationship. It works in simple ways. Ego/Selfishness is one of the major
causes of the tussle between partners. When this ego gets subdued by the power
of love, the relationship will know bliss.
Don’t you agree, ladies?